Baby daddy drama

I had the most terrifying experience of my life as a mother. I let Breanna's father take her for a couple days. It was the first time ever that me and Breanna had been apart. So I was a little on edge anyway. Well at 1:30am this morning I get a call from Jeremiah and he was shit-faced drunk and was talking very weird, wasn't making any sense. I asked him where Breanna was and he wouldn't tell me at first and then he was acting stupid and getting pissed at me because I was freaking out. So i left at 200am to go get my baby and when I got there luckily she was ok asleep on the couch. Jeremiah cried and whined and begged me to take him back and I put my foot down and said no. There's no way in God's green earth that I could ever forgive him for this. I trusted him to take care of her and he blew his chance. He said he was gonna go to a lawyer and get his visitation rights. I talked to his mom and she said he wont be able to ever take her overnight because of a certain charge on his juvenile record. I wont reveal what it is because I made a promise to his mom that I wouldn't tell anyone. But this certain charge has something to do with children its a very common offense unfortunately. Anyway, I don't want him around my baby unless I'm with him. I'm definitely filing child support. Just because he's helped make her doesn't make him a dad. He has to earn that title and so far he hasn't done anything to try. Well i'll go for now. Thanks for reading, Becky